Bitterness

Today I received a few comments in my entries from Anonymous. The sound of the comments for me, is bitter. I will not publish them but I thought Anonymous must know that I appreciate his/her comments. I am not mad nor the comments affect me. (Remember I am currently having issue with my Boss so I am pretty immune with the negativity about me).
 
For me I do not have to explain in details of my actions, why I tied the knot with my ex, a married man. In fact in my blog I basically do not tell every single details of my actions, my emotions and what had happened, which lead to some bit and pieces that readers would not get to know. This however will create different perception of readers towards me. I can totally understand that.
 
Anyway, in one of the comments, Anonymous did mention that he/she pray for my happiness. Though other comments are more towards bashing me but end of the day the doa from him/her that counts. So I am happy and thank you!!!
 
Let’s move on! Let bygones be bygones. I am in fact in good terms with my ex, I would call him every now and then. Just to check on him. He is doing alright and so is the family! It’s all good.
 
Semua ini qada and qadar. We have to believe in this – as a reminder for myself. Ujian dari Allah untuk semua orang lain lain, but we have to have faith and go through with the ujian as ujian from Allah. Yang ada semua tu hanya lah props saja i.e My Boss. The main thing is that these are the Ujian. Insha Allah we will get through. 

Yes, I feel the positivity in me! Looking forward for Friday! Yay!

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  1. Anonymous8 February 2017 at 15:57

    My sister now tgh ppening utk decide jd 2nd wife or not. The thing is 2nd or 3rd/4th mmg peluang utk diceraikn kn aware amatlah tinggi sbb the man dah okay dgn his 1st wife&their family. It's just that he wants more&if his not happy with u, he can always return back to his 1st wife&their family to restart or atleast acting that they were happy. He must have high expectations on you&you akan cuak gile whenever he's unhappy. Mcm ctdk huhuehew

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    1. SL9 February 2017 at 07:35

      I believe it all depend on the individual. Tak boleh nak buat judgement yang the husband akan choose 1st wife kalau jadi apa apa. But the main thing is your sister mesti yakin dengan pilihan dia and buat isthikarah juga. And then be happy and berdoa semoga perkahwinan akan kekal ... insha Allah. Kalau ini jodoh dia 😍 tapi kalau ini bukan jodoh dia, buat apa pun Allah tak akan izin kan jadi kan. Hugs thanks for sharing the story 😍

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