And Do They Have To Know ?

Today I posted few comments from blog to my IG story. Few of the comments mentioned about me being pregnant. So few of my friends took the opportunity to wish me well on my pregnancy, via DM. May be they did not notice the post I put up on my IG feed. 

My good friend from big C. asked if the story is true. Then mula lah ask me questions .....

Your ex is the father? If so, will you let him know about the baby?

When I said no, she replied 

You ni, ah .... cannot keep up with you la ... who is this fella and you are married or not? 

When I said, hahahah Gila tak kahwin ???, she replied 

Well you are brave but you have to think of the repercussion you will have on the child if you are not married. Will you be going back to work?

My reply to her was : Its OK ... Allah ada

No more messages from her after that .... hehehehehehe

Ada lagi lah few people yang macam nie. Yang bukan nak concern about me and baby but nak tau story behind kejadian baby and who's the father etc. There's one lady yang jarang jarang message I tiba tiba said to me .... 

Assalamualaikum. Apa habaq dear

I tak jawap apa pun kat dia

Anyway, Mak bagi saya doa nie suruh saya baca hari hari. Saya terlupa kadang kadang! Hahaha

Nak kena order tali kasut nie before habih kat kedai. 

Anyway, pasai kerja pulak. Seriously saya tak cari apa pun. Told you all that I am so lazy to do anything. However I received a message from this guy Param from Singapore. He is working with big J - another department, not the department I went for interview hari tu. 

Param nie kira our competitor when I was with big C, big M and big S. When I joined big E, big J is our vendor. I knew Param when I was in big C lagi - competitors pun nama nya kan. Apa hal saya nie cerita banyak pasai big nie .. sure you all akan pening nanti! Sorry ...

Param sent a message a month back .... asking me how am I doing and stuff. He is pretty close to my Ex Boss in big E. So I malas nak cerita banyak. Then he said he wanted to have a call with me. Ok lah fine. Saya dok ingat dia nak nak jadi spy kepada my Ex Boss .... BUT after talking for a while, Param cakap ada position yang depa nak create in Malaysia and asked me if I am keen to join. (Tu lah buruk sangka kat Param ingat dia spy LOL)

I asked him, bila lah nak kena start. He said in Q1 2021. Ohhhh then I said, you come back to me once everything is confirmed. Sebab nya I dok risau lah I pregnant bagai nie kan. Tapi Param insisted nak tau saya keen ka tak. Then saya kata lah yes. 

Ya Allah panjang pulak cerita nie saya nak kena type! Menyesai nak cerita ... hahahaha

When I was in Langkawi, Param habaq kat saya yang depa nak cepat kan hiring for that position and minta saya hantaq CV saya kat dia. Saya pun hantaq CV kat dia. Our Whatsapp conversation as below 

Hi Param ... but there is something I have to tell you ... I am pregnant .... at the age of 45!!! And I am not sure how will this effect this position I am applying for ... 😞

Congrats SL! When are you due? And what’s your plan?

Thanks Param. I definitely still interested in that position... I am due June 25th ish ...  If you are OK I can start asap ... and take maternity leave after. Or I can join 44 days after my delivery ...

Thanks SL. And thanks again for sharing. Will need to discuss all this with the hiring manager...

Begitu lah cerita nya ....

Till next time! 

Love,

SL